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Fear of Flying

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I’ve always been scared of heights and of flying but I don’t understand why that should be if a Behaviourist approach to phobias works.

The best way of keeping calm during a flight, I find, is to look at the bored faces of the staff. If they’re not scared, this must be ordinary. It worked for my last flight over the Atlantic and for a very bumpy ride into Barcelona a couple of years ago. I’m hoping it’ll work still for the trip to San Francisco but I don’t understand why I’m still scared.

Behaviourist psychology in practice treats phobias either with flooding or with progressive desensitsation. As I understand it, the idea with both is that confronting the object or source of your fear and being allowed to relax retrains you.

But I’ve already been on a six-hour flight to Atlanta and I feel just as bad about heights now. I still couldn’t climb up the spire in Freiburg, for example, something Helen did without turning a hair, or climb to the top walkway of the Sagrada Familia in Barcelona, or zoom up the Berlin Fernsehturm with ease. I still hate heights even though I’ve been exposed to them time and again. Doesn’t this suggest that the much-vaunted Behaviourist success with phobias is a pile of pants?

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July 18th, 2004 at 8:56 am

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California, Here We Come

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California, here I come
Right back where I started from.
Where bowers of flowers bloom in the spring.
Each morning at dawning,
Birdies sing an’ everything.
A sun-kissed miss said, ‘Don’t be late’
That’s why I can hardly wait.
Open up that Golden Gate,
California here I come.

If anyone would like to offer advice to two Californ-eye-aye novices about where to go, etc, would be great. We’re already planning: Sequoia National Park; Yosemite; Sierra Nevada; North California Coast & whales; SF & Bay Area; Grand Canyon; Las Vegas.

Suggestions to david at cloudsoup dot com. Cheers.

Written by David

June 15th, 2004 at 5:31 am

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Need to go to more places

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This is where I’ve been in Europe:

places visited in Europe

And this is where I’ve been in the States:

States visited in the US

Think I need to get out more

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June 11th, 2004 at 11:24 am

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